One question a day keeps the breakup away

Each of you gets a personalized question on WhatsApp every day. Neither of you sees the other’s answer until both have replied. A couple game for every kind of relationship.

6 steps

How it works

You only need a few minutes to set up. Then it runs on its own.

Step 1

Sign up as a couple

Sign up by entering your personal data and further details about your relationship so we can get to know you better. Complete the subscription and activate your profiles.

Step 2

Make it personal

After activation, each of you gets the option to add further details about yourself. Our algorithms and AI use these details to make your daily questions feel truly yours.

Step 3

Daily Ritual

Once everything's set up, each of you gets a new personalized question every day on WhatsApp – you answer right in the chat. Thousands of questions across 38 categories are waiting for you.

Step 4

Magic Moment

The other’s answer unlocks the moment you’ve both replied – delivered right into your WhatsApp chat. Cheating is impossible.

Step 5

Couple Streak

Every day you both answer counts toward your streak. Keep your streak alive to unlock new categories and more rewards.

Step 6

Memory Book

Every question and answer is saved in your Memory Book. Over time it becomes the diary of your relationship, there to reread whenever you like.

Over 100 couples are already on board

One small question a day that moves more than you’d think.

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FAQ

Questions & Answers

We have answered the most common questions. Contact us if you still have one.

General

What is coupleletters?

coupleletters is an AI-based question game for couples. Every day each partner receives a personalized question on WhatsApp. Once both have answered, the answers become visible to each other (the reveal). Over 100 couples are currently active.

Who is coupleletters for?

coupleletters is made for every kind of relationship. You can be freshly in love or together for 30 years, living under one roof or far apart. The questions adapt to your situation.

How does my partner join?

During sign-up, your partner’s email address and WhatsApp number are entered as well. For your partner it’s easy: one tap on the activation link, a few taps for the profile. After that, you’ll both receive a WhatsApp message from us. Once you both confirm with “GO”, the daily questions begin.

Is coupleletters free?

The first 3 days are free. After that, coupleletters costs $5 a month for both of you together, not per person. The subscription can be canceled monthly at any time.

Is an app required?

No. WhatsApp is all you need and there is no extra app to install. Changes can be made in the private space (website), where the Memory Book or the Couple Streak can also be viewed.

Features

What is the private space?

The private space is your personal couple area on the website: this is where you find the Memory Book, the Couple Streak with its badges and your profiles. Logging in works without a password. You receive a one-time link at your email address instead.

What is the Memory Book?

The Memory Book is the chronological archive of all questions and answers. A year from now you can go back and read what moved the two of you today.

What are milestone questions?

Milestone questions look back on your time together, for example on which answer surprised you the most. You both receive the very same one, always on the day after you reach a streak level.

What is the Couple Streak?

The Couple Streak counts how many days in a row you have both answered. As the streak grows, new question categories and badges are unlocked.

What can we unlock?

Your Couple Streak passes through 10 levels that reach from Bronze all the way to Red Diamond. Each level comes with a badge and permanently unlocks a new question category.

Daily questions

Do we both get the same question?

No. Each of you gets their own question every day, personalized with details from your profiles. At the reveal, both questions and both answers become visible to each other.

How personal are the questions?

The questions are very personal because your profiles flow right in. Your nicknames for each other, your favorite places and songs, even your inside jokes can show up in a question. Every question feels like it was written just for you.

What topics are waiting for us?

38 categories are waiting for you. Ten of them are unlocked with your Couple Streak (marked with a lock), and a few appear automatically to match your relationship (marked with a heart):

Everyday & FeelingsStrengths & WeaknessesConflict & BoundariesMusic, Movies & SeriesValues & MindsetSecretsDeep TalkThen & NowDeal or No DealDecisions & DilemmasThis or That...MemoriesOverthinkingRomance & DatesLove LanguageFamily & RootsFuture & DreamsValues & BeliefsAdventure & TravelGratitude & ComplimentsVibe Check (Aesthetics)Mythbusters Open RelationshipEngagementMarriageLong DistanceLiving togetherKids What If...Princess Treatment vs. Bare MinimumTrust IssuesMini ChallengesMoney & TreatsBe Honest...Overrated & UnderratedSpicyRed Flags & Green FlagsList Battle
Do questions repeat?

The questions themselves do not repeat, though certain topics will come up more than once. That is intentional. The answer you give today often sounds quite different a year from now.

Can my partner see my answer right away?

No. Answers stay hidden until both of you have answered. Only then are they revealed. Nobody can peek beforehand.

Good to know

Which one of us pays?

There is one subscription for the two of you. The person who signs up manages it. The partner never pays anything.

Can we cancel anytime?

Yes. The subscription can be canceled monthly and there is no notice period. After that it simply ends.

Where do questions and answers end up?

All questions and answers are stored on GDPR-compliant servers in Germany. Only the two of you can read them. Your answers are never shared, sold or used for advertising.

What happens if we miss a day?

The Couple Streak starts back at zero. Your record stays, and so do your badges and every category you have unlocked. The next day simply continues as usual.

How much time does it take each day?

You only need a few minutes a day. You read the question and answer right in the chat. Whether an answer is two words or two paragraphs long is up to you.

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